Things I’ve already written have become easy to say.
As you may already know, I’ve developed the habit of writing down things that I’ve said.
I initially only helped people by answering questions on the website.
After answering the questions, I can expand my answers and write future lessons.
My lessons are all about my experience.
When I was working in sales, I noticed that different parts of the conversations repeat regularly.
The situation and topics may change when I talk to different prospects, and many of the things that I say get repeated.
This is also true for dating and social gatherings.
We talk about the same topics.
Then I share more stories about what my conversation partner finds interesting.
There are stories that we share repeatedly.
There are stories that I shared well, and stories that I shared poorly.
A mistake that I make often is I spoil the ending before I tell the story.
To fix this problem, I put some of my stories in writing.
I want to fix the grammar and the structure of the story.
I arrange my story to have a proper beginning, middle and ending.
I can make the story longer or shorter, depending on the situation.
If I’m talking to a friend, date, interviewer, sales prospect, or business owner, in person or through my writing, I can confidently share stories.
When you write down your stories, you can express your point without needing to defend your position.
It’s my unblockable move.
Whenever I’m feeling nervous about a meeting or a conversation, and I’m worried that I’m going to forget to share an important detail, I write everything down.
I write down my thoughts.
I explore what I want to say on paper.
When I’m done writing, I am confident.
I can deliver what I want to say in a meeting or a presentation.
I also do the reverse.
If I feel that I had a meeting where the topics we discussed will be repeated in the future, I write down the story.
I’ll try to recall every detail of that meeting and make an effort to put everything I said in writing.
I use what I’ve written as a template.
I used to feel that writing my stories and reciting what I’ve written is insincere.
I felt that I needed to be more spontaneous, so I avoid writing things down.
Suddenly I had to do this out of necessity because my conversations became too long.
I felt foolish to object to this practice for too long.
I realized I share the same stories all the time.
The only changes are:
After editing, my stories are finally effortless to remember and share.
If I can do it, you can do it too.
I am praying for your success. God bless!
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