How to Learn Good English Skills
Learning a language is one of the most intimidating activities in the world because we get a lot of bad advice. Everyone says read the dictionary, read books, newspaper, magazines and watch movies and tv shows in English.
The thing is, a lot of the advice out there is bad advice and not effective for most people. Training companies charge money for training hours or the sales of training materials. The longer you learn to do something, the more money they potentially make. The idea is to make it really complicated.
The first advice they give you is to practice things that will bore you to death. After killing your enthusiasm and excitement, they will use your frustration to sell you more materials and more training hours.
The quality of the materials and your interest level is more important than the amount of training materials and hours of practice that you consume.
The goal of learning is to acquire a skill, put it into practice and experience the benefit.
The sooner you learn and put what you learned to use, the sooner you can build a habit. Habits are a key to success. Skills are a combination of good habits associated with doing a task.
Our goal is to give you the skills, and let you practice what’s important so you can benefit from speaking better English. Unlike traditional schools, I don’t intend to fill your head with useless stock knowledge that you’ll never use.
We learn by doing. Successfully learning a skill requires you to break the skill down into ingredients that are used often and learn how to use them. In the process we practice the important steps and learn to do them at the right time.
To make you an effective English communicator, we will be limiting the focus on five topics:
You can master the basics and carry a conversation faster with these five steps than you would by attending class after class after class. Some of the people I’ve taught found it hopeless but after slow exposure to the techniques I’m about to share with you.
I have a friend who’s been working as a department store sales lady all her life and after reading my lessons and a little coaching a few months ago she was able to quit her job because she had a job offer for an international call center that handles Australian account.
You can master conversational English by practicing the basics faster with just the five steps in this lesson.
Aside from the lessons you’re about to learn, just do a regular check.
Writing is refined thought. If you write things down you will be able to clarify with yourself what you’re trying to say not just to your others but to yourself as well. In this activity get a sheet of paper and write down a list of things about…
Write down as many as you can and try to expand. Write down your answer in the first sentence and expand to the next two or three sentence. Include some details and add with the reasons why your answer is your answer. This is an exercise in how to explain things well.
The following are the most common problems of people who are not used to communicating in English.
If you’ve experienced any of these in a situation where you are required to speak in English then I can tell that in that situation you were totally screwed.
The solution is simple.
Practice basic english by answering or asking yourself the questions.
If you’re a Filipina who’s thinking, I’m already good in English and I’m chatting with foreigners and they think my English is good, think again. They might just think you’re hot and anything you say is good to them. In a work environment, the mastery of basics will lead to the excellent results.**
The most common information discussed in English in ah interview and social setting are as follows. I’ll do my best to teach you everything I know on this post. If you benefit. Please send me your feedback.
People ask me for an answer. I used to enjoy it but every time I answer questions for others my answers often complicated things. Instead you might want to consider asking yourself the question and writing down the answer. Get your pad and ask yourself the questions I have prepared.
Instead of asking for answers consider evaluating your own answer.
If the answer calls for a list write down a list. Then learn to expand your answers from one word into a sentence. Once you have a sentence. See if you can expand it into two sentences. There is more than one way to say anything. If you have two ways of saying something you can pick the better one.
####1. Basic Introduction.
Here are some good habits when speaking.
Questions are a part of the conversation where you get a response from the other person. In an interview situation, your interviewer is asking you questions and observing your responses not just the words of your answers. If you do the previous steps well you will do better with your first impression.
Here are some problems you might be encountering.
I already provided you a list of questions to ask yourself
Topics you can start with to build rapport:
If you don’t ask you’ll never know.
If you don’t ask, the answer is always no.
I get a lot of good feeback with how I explain things well to the customer. I tell the customer I watch a lot of cooking shows. I just imitate people who are good at giving instructions and try to give instructions as if I was them.
Problems I previously encountered:
Instructions should be prepared in the following format.
Which is better?
Have both so you have a version for people who have knowledge and people who have no knowledge.
How do you dummy proof your instructions?
Just add a description. Instead of saying the word, describe it in detail, tell the other person where to find it, what colour, what other things help identify it and tell them what to do.
Where you can go to get better instructions:
Problems you might have encountered with pronunciation:
You don’t need years to have good pronunciation. A lot of people spend years learning how to do it right. Most filipinos in low income situations can’t be bothered. Some people get promoted from low income jobs.
My celebrity crush since I was a kid was Heart Evangelista. Some people say that back in high school, she was not the smartest person in the world but because she spoke good English and had good Pronunciation and as a result she was really pretty and when she spoke, she sounded like the smartest person in the world.
Here are a few things to master.
Fillers done wrong can make you sound like an idiot. Examples are going ughs and uhhmm during conversations.
Done right effective fillers can make you look and sound smarter in a conversation. Don’t jump in to make an answer. This section is about creating good habits in your conversations. Please be patient as I walk you through the process.
How to delay having to give an answer.
You don’t always have an answer but what do you do in the event that you don’t have an answer?
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